It's just so hard knowing that they want so badly to spend one with her and she pawns them off without even an option for them to spend time with me.
In my opinion, you arent mad that she isnt asking you; you are mad that shes going to see OM. It [censored] for the kids, I get it. But, you cant control her relationship with them.
What I want is for my kids to not be locked in a bedroom while she sneaks him in and then for her to come into their room stark naked after they made too much noise.
Im not going to argue with you, but it's strange that she has a room that locks from the outside. And I do agree that it's strange that she would go in naked, but my ex used to sleep naked and would periodically go see my kids of the same sex without putting clothes on.
That said, it doesnt sound like a good situation either way. I would document it. If/when you go for full custody, these are the kinds of things that will help your case.
Originally Posted By: j20a00g
For them to experience their mom again and not this sex crazed psycho. For them to know that they are loved by both parents since that's how this whole separation was presented and promised.
I hate that you and they are going through this. I think the stories that you are sharing are deplorable. That said, to me, it sounds like you are shifting some of your pain on to them. Changing some of the words from 'their mom' to 'my wife' sounds just as plausible. Not saying you are, but it looks like it to me from the words on the screen.
I would like to ask, why are you getting these kinds of stories? When my kids come back from my ex's, I try to ask only very limited questions just to find out what kinds of things they did so I can be involved in their life. To get to the level of detail that your W came into a locked room naked is a little odd.
