Fail?! You think you're failing? Heck no! You are being awesome at DBing, remember the results take time. This is a marathon not a sprint so it will take time to see results. One thing I was not aware of until watching the last resort technique videos, GAL is so we can have respite during the marathon. Self care is so important during this, it's like those drinks they have on the side of the road so the runners can stay in the race.
Just keep going.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3