It's too bad about your mil situation but I think you are handling it correctly.
As for your last paragraph, everyone here has or had the same struggle. Only you can decide when enough is enough. Like you said, you've been through a lot. Do you think you would have been able to get through all of this a year ago?
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om
