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I wasn't calling him to brag about it. We share a child, so I did have to let him know I was leaving. We have to talk about something when we're on the phone. I didn't bring it up in a way which was me trying to catch his attention. Just told him I was going. Honestly, I feel very detached. I'm not wrapped around the axle about what he does anymore. I'm just pleasant and happy and taking care of myself. And since he was planning on staying elsewhere for Thanksgiving (not in our house), I just gave him the courtesy of knowing his mom would have our son because I wouldnt be here.

Theres nothing left of that account to claim as marital assets anymore. He still hasn't filed papers so theres no order on me to not "waste" assets either.

I just wasnt sure how to take his consistently bad mood.