Hawker, I think not texting helps me too. It sets zero expectations rather than me doing just as you said and trying to "mind read".

J2, I have to get over that fear, and I do believe that letting go will work. I think she really has to lose all of me, friendship and all before she can even begin to sort out how she feels. I know that Friday when I saw her she was very confused; I think even more so than the Sunday before when she asked for a S with intent of D when she can afford it. She seemed so sure that Sunday, and so cold, and then Friday she was such a mess. If she thinks she can still have the best of both worlds she'll never have reason to make any decisions.


Me: 35 W: 32
MR: 2y T: 3.5y
SS11
BD: 11/3/16
EA: 10/26/16
PA: 11/11/16
W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16
Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL
I filed for D: 12/14/16
D-day: 3/10/17