Talking about trips (what you are doing,etc) is definitely NOT detaching.
Also, for your revealing of "hidden" accounts.... do keep in mind that he can claim those as marital assets.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
