That's a common (if not thee most common) fear....pushing them away by not responding.
As we pull away they come closer. Human nature. Hard part is pulling away. Your heart knows you need to, your mind knows it will work, but we still have troubles doing it.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17