Cheesyt, I'm so glad you're doing well with the GAL stuff.
As far as your W, the only advice I have is just try not to get too disappointed. As she's trying to sort out her decisions her emotions are likely all over the place as well and may change from day to day, or even moment to moment.
I agree, patience is difficult, but I believe it is key. I struggle with it myself.
Keep your cool and keep on keepin' on.
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17