Things are going slow but good. My ex and I continue to go out for ice cream most Sundays. We are working well together in dealing with the many issues that can arise raising 3 young adults. Last night she surprised me by asking if we can go to a movie together today.
I continue to do things for myself. I went to my 35th class reunion and had a good time. I will get together with classmates again on the Saturday after thanksgiving, a now yearly tradition.
This does not seem like much of an update. I feel good about it though. I read the forum often and feel strong urges to shout stop and slow down when I see others situation moving to fast. I feel bad when I see so often their situation crash and burn.
What I tell myself often is to relax and get comfortable. That the sun will rise in the east and set in the west. I remind myself to watch for the little incremental changes and not to push for big changes as they often lead to a set back. I don't push for talk about reconciliation, as I know it will happen if and when the time is right.
I hope everyone has a great thanksgiving. I will be having dinner with my 3 daughters and my folks followed up with desert with daughters and ex wife ( another small step in the right direction).
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
