POSITIVES

1) hubby is getting the 'nesting' bug again. he came into the room yesterday and said "wife, let's go spend some time in the boys room - give me about 15 minutes" - well, 15 minutes turned into a few hours. we completely redid their room! are they in for a shock when they get home

2) ok, forgot to mention we are in the "movie mode" again, ever since i got back. we watched a movie last night that he had started when i was gone and couldn't get into it (only 20 minutes) and told me he wanted to watch it with me so that i could explain what was going on. ok, so this shows me he is starting to really value my thoughts for one, and for another, he is not afraid to let me know he needs me for something WOO HOO

3) hubby is connecting with his family again, whew, i am so happy for that. when the whole bomb thing happened, and of course the blame game started, his family was part of all that blame. now he is wanting to help them out financially on something (a BIG 180 for him) and asked me to work on something for him in regards to this. of course, he still has a bit of an arragont attitude (let them kiss my butt for once ) but all in all it's a tremendous step in the right direction. it is showing me that he is realizing how important FAMILY is

well, i am off to be a fly lady today!!! everyone have a blessed day