She's gone. Living in the now.

[Sotto]

Hi Scrant, yes he has his own views about his Mum and how she has let him (and you) down. It saddens me that people do things like this that impact so adversely on such important relationships - but oh well...

I'm glad to hear about your GAL and social media group. Our divorce group has a social media group and it has been a great way of keeping in touch. I hope you'll reach out to some new friends, initiate and accept invites when you can.

I'm always interested in your W's comments about your pain. That she still sees you as pining and sad...I hope that in time and through your own progress that she will come to see otherwise - that you have moved forward so far and left her behind.

For us all, we pick ourselves up, move painfully forward, and then purposefully forward and then in the much longer term we may move on. It all takes time, but we get there.

For a lucky few, the WAS turns back to the M. But that is a bonus. The moving forward and processing has to be done anyway...

Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend :-)