New ILYBANILWY

[Steady9]

It helps to find the data of OM confirming A-- at least for me it was. My W would deny for ever but I was able to find out. She was using FB messenger and deleting everything- no email text or phone records. I ended up being able to record a call be leaving my phone recording ap on and leaving phone at house...I feel bad about it. But that is what I did. But I was able to get my thoughts together- believe our M was in trouble- know she is a liar - and move forward with a plan.

When I said I was letting her go and I stopped kissing etc then later said I know about A--by then she knew I knew because of interactions... but we were able to move forward. She cut off all contact from OM.

I would have never thought my W would do this. She says the same...

It is normal for W to have affairs -- it is not abnormal...that is what I think now. Assume there is another in the picture