So I have been getting on with my life, we live under the same roof, sleep in the same bed, kiss each other good morning, kiss and hug when we go to work and again when we get home, the other night when we said good night out hands met and she grabbed my hand and held it for about ten minutes. When we sleep if we bed she does not Pull away. She hasn't mentioned leaving for the last few weeks but did tell a close friend about two weeks ago that she is leaving me. I try not to let her actions affect me either way but of course detatching is an ongoing process. I am confused about trying to build connection with her as opposed to backing right off because of her interactions with me.
M 44/ W43 TOGETHER 26 YRS M16 S13/S10 ILYBANILWY JULY 16 STILL LIVING IN SAME HOUSE