Yes, rather than feeling 'got at' by him - maybe just lightly throw back at him - well, feel free to help with some tidying H if it bothers you....I'm a busy lady!
I do think that from the moment he chose to move out, this became your home and you get to decide how you keep your home - ranging from every teacup facing the same way to organised chaos or whatever...
And if he wants to visit your home, he can take it as he finds it. Also remember that we don't always get to choose the circumstances, but we do get to choose our reaction. And if you choose for this to be like water off a ducks back, shake your head and go about your day, that's up to you. Do remember that what he's doing is more about him and keep your house just as you want it.
Hope you have a lovely weekend xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
