X2 Your hands are full, a healthy person would see that and help. My kids make a mess right behind what I clean. It's a perpetual cycle when they're that age and if it wasn't that it would've been something else.
It sounds like he's in the stage where nothing will please him. When my w was there she was just waiting to pounce on me for anything she could. Don't worry about the setback, it happens to us all. Take care of yourself and the kids.
