Coly, great job sticking to your plans!

That's the sort of change I am trying to make stick, even though we are piecing. It helps keep us from falling back into the emotional fusion trap.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16