Hanging on and hoping for the best

[BillyHo]

I think it is possible that I am being too generous in helping her move out. I tend to be too nice most of the time. I need to learn to treat her like a neighbor and not like my wife. The only problem is if I don't help her she can't move out and I really think for us to move forward either way she is going to have to leave.

I still have no proof of OM but if I was looking from the outside in I would say "she's cheating on you dummie." I guess I don't want to believe that about her but all the signs are there.

So do I just assume she is a WW with no proof? How does my approach need to differ between a WW and a WAW? If your not sure what route do you go?