I didn't explain it thoroughly, I apologize. I am moving to my brother's temporarily until I get money together to get my own place. It is literally 5 minutes away. I did kind of make it sound like I was going to be on the streets, sorry.
In Texas, there is no alimony per se, it is "spousal maintenance" which requires you to be married 10 or more years or be a victim of abuse. We have been married for 8.
F that! If she wants the separation she needs to be the one to move out. Doesn't matter if only she is on the property. Not that you want to go all legal.
You are no different than a stay at him mom. Meaning that it would never be expected for a husband/father to come home and just push out the wife/mom with no means. Do not do this!
How you handle the separation will definitely pace a way to how it goes from there. Being a hands on dad is a tough gig. It's he most rewarding as well. By, I think it's apparent she has no respect for you. And you are bending to whatever the heck she's demanding.
Read up on sandis rules. Then read them again and again and again.
Time to get your &@££$ back bro
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
Yes, there is an echo around here. Do not move out of the house or the MBR. If she wants space she needs to do the heavy lifting to get it, not you.
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