Cheesy, I like the idea that if she says she wants counseling with you, you just listen and validate like Blu says. But if she comes right out and asks if you're willing to go, don't ASK her if ow is still in the picture, say "As long as ow is in your life, I am most definitely NOT interested in counseling or any friendship at all." Or something like that. I like the idea that she does most of the talking, and you stay kind of detached -- be a person who knows exactly what she wants, and has already decided, pretty much regardless of what W has to say or wants. Be strong, kind, sure of yourself. Because you're all of those things!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
