TOTALLY understand what you mean, Coffee! My XH, who professed to love me forever, not only cheated on me and lied about it, but is perceived as this really good person who would never do anything like that. I think that is why it took me so long to get past it. He was a NICE guy and NICE guys don't do that kind of thing, right? Hang in there! There is LOTS of support here.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
