I cannot get over missing my husband

[Cristy]

Hi Job and Cristy

I really appreciate your advice. I'll be meeting the business partner (P) for a coffee outside the office. I am a partner as well but don't work in the office and not working at all since this happened. P is also a friend, close to my H and not so close to me. But he is a really decent guy. He and his wife have socialized a few times with us over the past many years and my H plays golf regularly with him and, of course, sees him everyday in the office. I haven't been in touch with him or his wife since H left because I know H has shared his version of what is going on. There is a good chance that P will ask questions about the kids and me and how we are getting on...I'm pretty sure he knows we are not OK...so how do I deal with the questions? I will try and stick to business only but I am a lousy liar and if he asks more probing questions...??? xx

Hello sosad55,

There is no need to share any info about yourself or the kids with your business partner. If he asks, you could confidently and politely thank him for his concern and say that you would rather not discuss it. period.

You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be.
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Cristy
Resource Coordinator
The Divorce Busting Center
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