Jeep74 is correct. My W is doing the same to me except she is trying to "help" me to ease her mind. I let her know I no longer need her help as she is moving on with the OW and has fired me as her W (totally stole that from someone on here). It drives her crazy when I tell her I don't need her help, but I have boundaries and I'm not going to aide her in easing her conscious for her decisions. You shouldn't with your W either. It can be difficult when you've always been each other's rock and comfort, but letting go of that is essential for you to work on yourself.

Keep your head up and stay strong!

Me: 35 W: 32
MR: 2y T: 3.5y
SS11
BD: 11/3/16
EA: 10/26/16
PA: 11/11/16
W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16
Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL
I filed for D: 12/14/16
D-day: 3/10/17