One other point, she asked me if I knew a mover she could use, as she wouldnt ask at work because she doesn't want anyone to know? Why? And why not as OM?
Her way to keeping you under her thumb. She keeps you engaged and in the background...maybe as a backup or maybe easing you along giving you the pretense that you are helping her - sort of in a way to ease her mind by making you feel better, if that makes sense.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.