Cristy, I will try to call this weekend. We are already working with a therapist and she has her own counselor as well. I know that she is MLC and that where she is at right now is replay. She may act towards me in a way that is nice, but at the same time she is planning to move on with her life. I am working on GAL myself and preparing for what my answer will be. I don't think the trial separation will change much for her, as she is going to work on her relationship wth OM, even though she will have her own place. So that will help me GAL and decide my choice, which at the end of this, I will have to be comfortable with.
I know from all of the MLC posts, that I am in a place of little hope and that I need to stay strong and work my DR plan. I am reading, working out, doing a lot with friends and family....so I am alright. I have been through and survived worse in my first M and I will overcome this too if thats what plays out. It is a period of adjustment and disappointment in that she can't see what she is leaving behind and the cost of it. I can only hope that through counseling and some self reflection, the light goes on for her, as I GAL.
M52 W52 M17 T20 SS 23 from my 1st M Lives on his own BD 10/01/16 Trial Sep 12/01/16
