where to begin or end?

[jade]

Its been pretty quiet in my new dim world. I tried to discuss flipping our kids weekends to match my moms, now shes open to it and 'needs' me to watch our kids this weekend. But when i laid out a plan, it didnt compute, so then i asked what she suggested and she went quiet for a few days, said she was gonna discuss on wednesday but didnt, but she did restate my original plan in question form on thursday to which i merely replied with OK.

Why is it whenever she shoots a thought down and i ask for an alternative, she goes blank.

Some days i feel like shes fast tracking her new life as a sort of DB effort. Only not working on herself, just filling a void.