She's his daughter and he's upset. It's coming out sideways at you. Just my thought. Hang in there. And he could have gotten off his a$$ to clean instead of becoming the Ansel Adams of interior photography. Just my $.02

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver