Hi Irish ... you might think of it as a set back... I personally think you just left the door open ... no need to feel bad about that nor to respond to her comments .. don't let her dictate your response. Just ignore her ...
you havenot done anything wrong you should be proud of your feelings at least you still can love and you still have good memories... channel them to be the best man you can be and show her and everyone else the best version of you.... let her think what did I loose and for what ... focus on what you are grateful for for at least you had good memory of last 15 years while she doesnot ... i try not to take things personally .... I don't her left me because he left his kids, his mom, his siblings, his friends , his whole life.... so basically sh left his own self and I am just a part of the package... I try to feel pity rather than anger...for life for them must be lonely.....they thought we are controlling them so they ran ... without much thought that they always had a choice to do what they wanted in the M but they did not and it s easier to blame after that....
Have a great weekend .....


M 45 H 45
D1 12 D2 9
BD 04/14
Living two different state
Not officially separated