I thought I would start a thread for those of you that feel compelled to compose an email, text or letter to your WAS.
Writing out your thoughts and feelings can be healing. But if you are a true DB'er, you should NOT send it to your WAS. I already made this mistake many times. It is pursuing and will only leave you feeling more rejected when they don't respond...and they probably won't respond.
So post them here. We will not judge. Just pour your heart out to your DB family, not to your WAS.
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