Honestly, I don't think the sex of the op makes any difference in a mlc. Many in MLC do and act in ways that are completely out of character or moral norms for them. New fetishes. New toys. New partners. New everything. Don't think or worry so much about whether he's with a dude, chick, or a chick with a di....u get the point. Worry only about how you are going to proceed.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17