The grieving for the LBS takes time and it lasts until it stops around 1-2 years
It is better to go fully. through it now and make all the changes we can if we try to avoid the grief, it comes back later we can't skip it-
as I look back -I remember that time as one of the most painful/transforming actually I dont see it as bad--I remember the pain but no longer feel it I dont miss my XH and my kids are doing amazing despite the fact they haven't seen their father in many years-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
