Feyth

Hang in there..try to not take it personal the MLCer is very self centered

I does sound ridiculous and Im sure your L can advise you
I wouldn't worry
A good L goes a long way-to protect us from getting the raw end of the deal

unfortunately our H do not care about anything but themselves right now

and in D we need to do the exact same thing and make sure any agreement made are checked out by our L..

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow