Hi So Sad

Just know that you are not alone in this

Your H is displaying the same type of behavior than mine and so many others have

Juts remember it is NOT your fault..
In MLC they seem to follow a lot of the same behaviors
some are
they are:

1.terrible parents
2.spend like theres no tomorrow
3.let go of responsibility
4.have an OP and or new friends sometimes younger
5.LIe
6.rewrite history
7. dress differently/dye hair/get tattoos/motorcycles/cars/piercing

WE have to create a new life slowly and let them go
grieve and get therapy and or support
work on being there for yourself and the kids
take good care of yourself by eating, resting exercising
keep posting

You will get through this,,the pain will pass


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow