Your H is displaying the same type of behavior than mine and so many others have
Juts remember it is NOT your fault.. In MLC they seem to follow a lot of the same behaviors some are they are:
1.terrible parents 2.spend like theres no tomorrow 3.let go of responsibility 4.have an OP and or new friends sometimes younger 5.LIe 6.rewrite history 7. dress differently/dye hair/get tattoos/motorcycles/cars/piercing
WE have to create a new life slowly and let them go grieve and get therapy and or support work on being there for yourself and the kids take good care of yourself by eating, resting exercising keep posting
You will get through this,,the pain will pass
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow