Cherry. Just trying to get on with life

[Maybe]

Hi Cherry, sorry to hear about your situation. It's very hard for me having my 17 months old missing his dad. I think it's 10 times harder when they are old enough to understand that he should be home and it's not! And being back and forth like that... I will sure be cautious of H's any attempt to reconcile. I don't want to go through it again, let along my S. But children are angels. I am glad that he is with me everyday. If H is not coming back, I do not want S to live with him ever. I do not believe they have the right after walking out. But the law says different... solider on cherry. There's no better gift to a child than a sibling. They have each other now. They will be best friends! And they will be your family with or without your H. He's obviously not in his right mind. So keep going dark coz you don't want him to drag you into the emotional mess. I admire you being strong for your children!