Actually what surprises me the most about your post is your level headedness, and the very healthy way you seem to be accepting his infidelity.
Your open to reconciliation but certainly not waiting around. And you seem to be doing great naturally with setting up boundaries for you and your son
You have a good handle on this and I hope you keep posting. The journaling can be very helpful.
I remember a poster from maybe a year ago, whose wife had cheated on him with another woman that I believe they had allowed to live in their home. I don't remember his name, but i would imagine a situation involving a spouse exhibiting confusion over sexual preference requires a different level of expertise.
I'm glad your focus seems to be on coparenting. Wonder if he would agree to family counseling with the emphasis on parenting.
