It blows my mind as well what all of our WS's did...I totally get why it would be hard to trust again, (I wish I knew in my sitch) but maybe the same thing you tell us about letting go to get them to realize what they are losing is the same letting go to the past so you can find the new love/M with your H?


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017