Not too much new but I'm watching w spin. She can switch personalities in a second.
She's been talking a lot of getting her own place lately. "You know I'm 34 and I should have my own place." She tells me like I should be happy for her. I want to say yes with your family you abandoned but I just keep quiet. At first it was upsetting but she's not ready to come back home and her friend is a bad influence so I'm taking it as a positive thing. My worry is about the kids wherever she goes.
She is having some trouble though, since she moved out on her last lease. Last night she told me she found a place, she was going to sign a lease tomorrow, how great it was, etc, then told me where it was. I told her it concerned me with the location. She asked why and I asked if she checked the sex offender listings. Switch went off..J-C Kyh! You think I didn't look, blah blah. I looked but I will again for you! I calmly told her if she looked there was no need to JC me a simple yes was good. She was on her phone a few minutes, got mad at me and said "I can't live there, I just want the kids when it's my time"(funny how she interprets guardian attorney's letter as if she got 50/50, not what it reads and I won't let her take the kids somewhere unsafe). Then She left mad at me, lol. She also wanted me to feel bad for her, complaining about no furniture, etc. she must have left stuff at her old place or sold it. I kept quiet again I wanted to dart her with OM, cross country trips, concerts, "my" new dog, clothes, tattoos, and who knows what else but it wasn't the right time.
I've kept communication minimal and wasn't available yesterday when she wanted to call. She called again in the afternoon and we chatted for 10-15. It was nice and friendly, then someone else showed up last night. Kept it short his morning and to her texts today. She texted to tell me she has strep throat. I just told her sorry and to let me know if she needs something. Then she texted about apartments again to which I keep short. Hope it works, etc
