Yes, you are struggling with patience. You are still bringing up A LOT! If you are meeting tomorrow then I think you should see it only as a time to listen, hear, and validate. That's it. You don't need to share the other stuff. If she is coming around, you can figure that out in time. I think this needs to be your 180! Just listen. No sharing, no laying out conditions, nada. Listen only. Can you do that???

That is patience, my friend, that.

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela