Yeah, I'm a doormat and the night before we were home together for a while before she took SS to his dad's and bailed to the OW's. During that time I was mostly friendly or at least civil, but overall aloof and she hates that. I don't know if maybe me making sure I'm taking care of my own feelings instead of letting her put me in the friend-zone is what made me feel so good yesterday or not. Probably so though. We haven't had any contact since then other than to sort out finances via text a couple of times yesterday.
That's what she does now, if SS isn't there she spends her nights at the OW's which at first left me feeling pretty empty, but now just a bit "eh, whatever" or at worst, mad. I'm looking forward to moving out just so I don't have to see that all the time, but I will my home, my bed, and especially my SS.
The friend zone thing cracks me up...of course they want to keep us as a "friend"...we are still trustworthy! But why would I want to be friends with my WW? She has been a TERRIBLE friend, even if I exclude the lying and cheating.
