I'm so tired of all of this Cherry and I'm not pregnant so I can't imagine what's it's like for you!
Your H needs to find his place again because at the moment he is like a floating satellite in your family coming into range every now and then. Hopefully it will settle down soon and you will have a routine in place for him to see S.
Sending you hugs (((Cherry)))
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')