Cheesy, what a strange convo you had with W last night. Do you think OW is out of the picture now because I can't imagine that convo going on if she was there....
Sooo, to your recent text from W. Your W's behaviour is very erratic at the moment isn't it! IMHO I would ask her what the purpose of the therapy is first. Only because I have heard some WAS asking to see a therapist to help to have a more 'amicable' breakup, which I think personally is weird! I'm. I'm not saying that's what it is but you have to be sure you are both singing from the same hymn sheet!
I think your other questions about OW/OM will come afterwards once you are clear on her motives.
Sending you hugs Cheesy ((( )))
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')