need help / advice. text from w -soo...i was thinking maybe we could try seeing a therapist together...if you're still interested. me-I'd like that, lets talk. I'm about to go to my IC session and I'm swamped at work. I have a few questions / requests I have to think about before we pull the trigger. Let me sit on this and get my thoughts in order. Feel free to do the same.
went into my session. talked about boundaries, and my "non-negotiables" need help with them though. I've thought about them but I don't want to forget something important. help please!!!
1. no contact with OW (break up) or OM (they're still fbook friends, I find that unnecessary) 2. transparency, phone, fbook, email, blah blah. 3. counseling ( which she brought up) 4. date nights and family nights are a must.
A few questions I have for her, 1. what are you hoping to gain from counseling? 2. what parent / step parent role are you expecting from me in this period. 3. are you ALL in?
If she's good with the boundaries / non-negotiables then I'll know she's 100% committed.
a few things I'd like to let her know. 1. I'm 100% committed to doing the work together. 2. I'd like to stay living in my place until we are in a better place. 3. I wish to have separate finances until we are in a better place.
