ngs, besides the past cheating, have you been otherwise untrustworthy? Your infidelity created the loss of trust but your other actions since then may have also reinforced it to get your M to this point. It could be other big things or a bunch of little things that kept your W from regaining any trust in you.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5