Maybe this will be the final, final update. On the marriage side, its done and done. The ex-wife is complaining of being taken to the cleaners...on the flip side, due to us moving around my jobs never amounted to more than 1 - 2 year stints, even though they were in my field, I had to basically start over each time. Which sucked, really...because now I am at the lower end of things and am not sure if I can even make the house payments and all...hence the support and all. Oh well, was I wrong to get what I deserved?
So for me, I'm trying to keep to my sabbatical. Not sure I want or need anything anymore, with one exception.
Remember the amazing woman I talked of? Well, I guess I was wrong. Coms can't be a one way street, can it? After all, if coms are only initiated by one party then that doesn't say much for the interest level, does it? Too bad.
As they say, life is too short and we aren't getting any younger. And then there is Harley Quinn. Not sure what will end up with that one. Although some questions have been answered there are still a few that remain. Guess we will see, eh? If one were to believe in the universe and signs, then things sure are pointing that way. But me, I'm skeptical of such...the ex caused that mess.
We shall see, though.
It sounds like you're in good spirits. That's really the ultimate goal whether a marriage works or not. I'm glad you mentioned the universe and signs. Some people say God. It's all good. YES, the universe talks to us all the time. Most people ignore signs. Once I stopped ignoring them and follow the signs, the worm definitely turned in my favor. Take that approach with Harley. If it's meant to be then it will be. If your marriage was meant to be saved then it would have been. Don't sweat it if your future isn't crystal clear. That leaves the door open to great adventures. Keep your mind and heart open and just go with the flow. Good luck.