Your original marriage is dead. Whatever comes out of your situation, whether it's reconciliation or not, will have to be entirely new.
This statment is so harsh and yet so on point at the same time. I want my old marriage back, but that's impossible and regardless we both know that the old marraige didn't work so getting it back wouldn't help anyway. It's an opportunity for transformation [/quote]
This was the hardest thing for me to accept because if the marriage is dead, then it might not come back. I think its part of grieving process.
