darknes, regarding my little "speech" above, you're totally right. It does sound a bit like a sales pitch. So let's say the subject comes up and I reply with your edited short version, and then either the MC or my wife says, "tell me more about this change..." How much should I elaborate?
Originally Posted By: msp710
Your original marriage is dead. Whatever comes out of situation, whether it's reconciliation or not, will have to be entirely new.
This statment is so harsh and yet so on point at the same time. I want my old marriage back, but that's impossible and regardless we both know that the old marraige didn't work so getting it back wouldn't help anyway. It's an opportunity for transformation.
Who moved my cheese?
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
