XW showing signs or just MLC script

[peacetoday]

I agree
You tested the waters--so now u know where she is-In game playing mode
You told her the truth-you still love her..she knows, she could come back if she worked for it--Shes not ready

I think if you drop the rope and totally let her go

she may hit bottom faster, harder-since part of her security was having/seeing if you were there
I think you are right..If she leaves OM, then there can be room for conversation with a therapist to call her on her stuff
If she stays with OM you just become the new emotional affair

I have a good friend whose XH did the same
he left -went on to his 2 nd ow...on the 2 OW he started calling , my friend (His XW)
They became friends but she was already over him its like 7 years..
HE left his second OW and
he tried with a vengeance to get her back
she's just not interested anymore,,and she would have done anything in the beginning to stop him from leaving..He is still trying

I think when we move on in some cases, they decide to come back-

Its obvious she is not sure, so that is good
Once you detach , she will feel the energy of you being gone
Then without you and the girls, she is left with OM
and she will realize that he is not making her happy either

She's in therapy..she feels regret --I think thats a start
I never got anything like that from my X