XW: It's not worth paying to move it and store it here XW: I don't have the money to do that Me: That must be tough
Jim, I think you need to just stop trying to validate her when texting, until things settle down. It does not sound like validation. It almost seems hateful at times. I don't think you mean it hatefully, but that's how I would see if I were in her position.
I don't know how to advise you about the holidays, since she lives away from your city.. If you give in to her, then it will be that way for every holiday. It may be, anyway. As you said, next year you will be the one without them.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
