Hi Sotto and Vapo

You are both exactly right.

A 180 is necessary but NC is more important.

She is still with OM. Why am I even engaging with her. She has nothing to offer me.
All she is doing is gratifying herself. I will block her cell and emails. I don't even want to read her messages anymore.

Let her bake more, hit her rock bottom or whatever but I need to get far away from it.

Hope you all have a great day :-)


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015