Struggling

[fightin]

Had a good session with IC tonight. She pushes me to stay focused on myself, especially now that my W has stated she wants a D which is good, I need help with that focus.

After the session I went over to my SS11's dad's house to hang out with him for a while. He's hurting so much and so angry at his mom right now. W told him she was in love with someone else so I had to go away so she could be happy. Or that's what I got from what SS said. He's holding her accountable and I'm not sure how to help him handle that. He has every right to be angry, but I don't want to encourage him being rude to his mother. He's vowed to hate the OW as well to which I just replied that if she truly makes his mother happy he needs to keep an open mind, and eventually an open heart. It is so hard to see him hurting so much.