I really struggled when WH was staying away three weeks out of 4, the kids would miss him and then when they would grow "used" to his absence he would return and it would begin again. Now that he is home I find myself struggling mightily with detachment. But it is comforting to see the kids snuggle up to him and fall asleep.
Was your WH ever involved in your S life? I am trying to get an idea if your WH was a good dad who lost his way or a detached father from the beginning?
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
